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  Content Warning: Miscarriage/Pregnancy loss, depression Best friends. They’re amazing. And we think everyone should have one. Someone to listen to you when your partner is not listening, someone to cry to when you’ve miscarried that baby you tried so hard for, someone to hold your hair while you throw up (whether it’s alcohol or pregnancy), someone’s shoulder you can cry one when you get your period again after trying for what feels like forever, the one who listens to you cry about how depressed you are after having your baby and how it makes you feel like a bad mom, the one who convinces you to talk to your doctor about it and the one that helps you brush your hair. Someone to love you and support you like absolutely no one else can, not your husband or even your mom. That person doesn’t need to have known you forever, you could meet them tomorrow, we were lucky enough to meet each other about ten years ago and we both thankful we have. We’ve been in each other’s weddings, we’v...
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  Sometimes a baby falling asleep on you is the best way to give yourself a break and be gentle with yourself. Remember, being a mom is hard and there is no perfect way to do it. And your kids don’t expect you to be perfect either just to do your best, just like you expect of them. So if no one has told you lately ... You’re amazing. You’re doing a great job. And be kind to yourself Happy Friday Love your two favourite #hotmessmom ‘s . . . Don’t forget to enter our giveaway! Link is in the bio. Make sure that you follow us everywhere! (Link in bio) Youtube at Two Moms And A Hot Mess https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCrMu9F3TTw-iuHx3xVUQBdw Tiktok at @twomomsandahotmess Facebook at Two Moms And A Hot Mess Twitter at @two_mess Blogspot at twomomsandahotmess.blogspot.com Instagram at twomomsandahotmess https://linktr.ee/twomomsandahotmess #momlife #momsofinstagram #momnight #kids #family #momofboys #momofgirls #momlife #momsofinstagram #momnight #kids #family #momofboys #momofgir...
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  If you need a sign... This is it! I think it's easy to forget, as moms or parents, who we are. That we are individuals with desires and dreams and hopes and wishes. Its easy to get wrapped up in the day to day activities that need to get done, butts to be changed, clothes to be washed, lunches to be made and packed, homework to be done etc... Maybe you have a dream to write a book, or travel to Europe, or take up painting again, or learn how to bake bread, or start a blog! So this is it, this is your sign, this is us telling you and encouraging you to just go for it. Regardless of whether or not it turns out well so long as you have fun. We started this blog to try and reclaim a little bit of each of our identities, and of course it would be nice if it were successful or if we even helped someone but the important part is we're having fun together. Paint, cook, plan some travelling, write a book, or run a marathon. Doesn't have to all get done tomorrow but just start. Wri...
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  New video is up!!! And don’t forget to .... hit that subscribe button https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=F5LJOtyAqOI&t=12s Make sure that you follow us everywhere! Youtube at Two Moms And A Hot Mess https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCrMu9F3TTw-iuHx3xVUQBdw Tiktok at @twomomsandahotmess Facebook at Two Moms And A Hot Mess Twitter at @two_mess Blogspot at twomomsandahotmess.blogspot.com Instagram at twomomsandahotmess https://linktr.ee/twomomsandahotmess #momlife #momsofinstagram #momnight #kids #family #momofboys #momofgirls #momlife #momsofinstagram #momnight #kids #family #momofboys #momofgirls #hotmess #hotmessmama #hotmessexpress #hotmessmom #hotmessmoms #hotmessmonday #hotmessmondays #hotmesseverything #twomomsandahotmess #tellusyourstory
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  Motherhood and mental health, let’s talk about it. Often times it’s portrayed as beautifully tragic. In the movies you have this beautiful protagonist often overcoming whatever the mental health issue is in order to get their happily ever after. But let’s be honest here, mental health isn’t always beautiful, in fact most of the time I would say it’s not. Most of the time I would say it’s dark and gruesome, and most days an uphill battle. And as such motherhood is not always beautiful, it can also be dark and difficult and an uphill battle, one that we’re told we should always at all times enjoy. We should enjoy it because we’ve been given this wonderful and beautiful gift, a baby, so you should always be happy. And then the postpartum depression or postpartum anxiety kicks in and it starts getting harder to always be happy and thankful for the beautiful gift.  Postpartum depression is not always feeling a little down after having a baby (the baby blues) or not being able to ...
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NEW VIDEO IS UP! And this one is a Shein haul, one of the hot mess moms scored some pretty amazing deals... check it out so you can see what we got.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WUvG3iRPLsQ Make sure that you follow us everywhere!  Facebook at Two Moms And A Hot Mess Twitter at @two_mess Blogspot at twomomsandahotmess.blogspot.com Instagram at twomomsandahotmess Youtube at Two Moms And A Hot Mess: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrMu9F3TTw-iuHx3xVUQBdw
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  NEW VIDEO UP!!!! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=agbE84FFSoI Hey everyone this is our first video for our new channel and blog. We’re introducing ourselves and letting you know what you can expect to see from us and a little bit about us! We hope you enjoy the video and share with your friends to let them know about all the amazing content they could see from us. Thanks again everyone and don’t forget to embrace your hot mess!  Make sure that you follow us everywhere!  Facebook at Two Moms And A Hot Mess Twitter at @two_mess Blogspot at twomomsandahotmess.blogspot.com Instagram at twomomsandahotmess Youtube at Two Moms And A Hot Mess
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